Ignite the Fire: Guest post by Mercy River!

I have something exciting for you today!  

Mercy River is doing a tour around the blogosphere and today they are playing here!  They sent me their new CD and I must say, it is wonderful!  Do you ever hear a song that touches your heart so much that it brings you to tears?  Their new album Higher is packed full of song after song that made me feel like I wasn’t alone in my fears and insecurities.  I immediately felt a kinship to them, they brought so many of my own feelings to light.

Thank you Mercy River for today’s post!

Ignite the Fire:

How Modern Mascara-Wearing Moms Can Make a Difference 

By Whitney Permann of Mercy River

Dishwashers. GPS Navigation Systems. Mascara. Never has there been a “better” time to be a woman on the earth. Not only do we have so many modern conveniences that our generations of grandmothers didn’t–we also have many rights that they could only dream of.

For example, we have the right to vote. The right to become educated. And the right to speak up and be heard in our communities. Many brave women in our country dedicated their lives in an effort to improve OUR lives. And why? Because they knew what WE know: women are smart, capable–and when they’re on fire–really really powerful.

So now that we’re here, enjoying those rights and privileges…what are we doing with them? I’m sure I’m not the only one who has realized that I SHOULD be doing something…but not sure HOW I should be doing whatever it is I should be doing.

All that changed for me when I met Jill Manning. Jill is a therapist who spoke at a Time Out for Women event that I sang at in 2010. She was presenting on how women need to be standing up in the fight against pornography. And these words in particular changed my life:

“Women are movers and shakers. Look what they’ve done with breast cancer, autism and drunk driving. Why aren’t more women trying to make a difference when it comes to how pornography is affecting our faith, our communities?”

Boom. A fire ignited in my heart, and I decided that THIS is what I wanted to be doing. I wanted to be one of the women taking a stand against pornography–especially since 4 of my 5 children are boys. Instead of just worrying about it, I wanted to DO something.

After a little digging, I learned of a “White Ribbon Week” (Internet Safety Week) that some public schools were doing in Utah. No school in my school district had ever done it, so I decided it was time to start.

I approached our PTA president and principal and got them on board. And with the help of three other passionate moms, we organized an incredible week full of learning and discussion with the teachers, students, and parents in our community.

The students learned about cyber bullying, online predators, what to DO when they see something inappropriate on the computer, how to keep their personal information safe, and how to encourage their friends to make smarter choices on the internet. There were posters, prizes, essays, assemblies, and best of all…discussions about internet safety happening at home.

One mother said to me, “I am so glad we had this week in our school. I’ve always wanted to talk to my kids about these things…but didn’t know how.”

Orchestrating an Internet Safety Week in my kids’ school was a small thing to do in the overwhelming fight against pornography. But it was effective. Some families installed filters that weren’t previously there. Some families had their first ever “Internet Safety” FHE. And some families simply became aware of a danger they hadn’t considered. If the week helped protect only a few families, only a few children, it was worth it. And hopefully, next year it will be even better.

So what gets YOUR fire going? Community service? Music? Education? Reading? Nutrition? The environment? Pick something you can get passionate about and use your talents to make a difference. Don’t know how? Ask the Lord. He will guide you. Not all of us need to picket in front of the White House or testify before Congress or create non-profit organizations. But we can each do SOMEthing.

As mothers, let’s show our sons and daughters that THIS is what makes women truly beautiful–our power to influence. Let’s show by our examples that we are more concerned with our homes and communities than the latest fashions, TV shows, or neighborhood gossip. Let’s leave a legacy of positive action and change for the next generation…and thank our lucky stars we can wear mascara while we do it.

But the greatness doesn’t stop there.  Mercy River is giving away their new CD to one of you lucky ladies :)  To enter all you have to do is answer this question (mandatory first entry):

What gets your fire going?

For additional entries you can:

  • Follow my blog
  • Spread the word via Facebook or blogpost (make sure you link back)

Make sure you leave a comment for each entry.  I will announce the winner Monday, March 19th :)

Good luck!

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11 Comments Add yours

  1. Cari says:

    What an awesome post. I have heard them several times at TOFW and they are amazing. I can’t wait to pick up the cd (or win it!) Unfortunately a lot of things get my fire going- I feel passionate about so many causes and feel pretty powerless do do much when I’m home with three toddlers and a husband in Afghanistan. I have lots of plans for the future, but for now I do what I can by donating money to good causes- lds business college, unicef and the lds humanitarian, temple and perpetual education funds. I also send email whenever a political or moral issue needs attention. It’s not much, but I feel it’s what I can do at this season of my life. I am excited for the future when we can go as a family to Africa to dig a well for a village, tutor struggling students or help with some other great cause. I admire people who give of their time and talents to make a difference in the world.

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  2. Lyndsey says:

    I am already a follower. :)

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  3. Lyndsey says:

    And now I just posted a link!

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  4. Megan B says:

    Oh… the many many fires that light up my heart…

    Probably my top fire of the moment is making little diapers for tiny stillborn infants. It lights my fire to know that so many little angels are born that have nothing to wear because commercial diapers are too small for them. Losing a child is hard enough. The idea that they wouldn’t be able to have a diaper to cover their tiny bums just seems like insult to a very tender injury. I just couldn’t bear the thought. I had to do something about it. And it gave me something to do for my own healing.

    Finding delicious healthy recipes also gets my fire going. If given the choice between delicious or nutritions…. I usually pick the delicious one every time. When I find something that fits both of those descriptions, I like to shout it from the rooftops and share it far and wide.

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  5. Megan B says:

    I posted a link on my FB page!

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  6. Heather B says:

    Hmmmmm, education for my family in all areas lights my fire. Learning about and standing by the Constitution does as well. Nutrition and health also light my fire. Great giveaway!

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  7. Maine Mom says:

    I just bought their cd! You are going to love TOFW! I’m glad you are going. :-)

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  8. Wendy says:

    What a great cause to fight for!

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  9. Tara M says:

    What gets my fire going is service. I try to serve in many different aspects wherever I can and wherever needed. I help out in my oldest son’s classroom twice a week…I do math exercises and reading practice with the children. I am the classroom mom for my Kindergartener, so I help plan and execute parties and events. I volunteer at a local food bank once a week. I babysit for a friend every other week. I babysit a neighbor boy quite often last minute. I help friends with random things like picking up a friend’s kiddos from the hospital where she was just admitted so that they wouldn’t be alone in the waiting room, etc. I THRIVE on helping others and giving of my time! It is what makes my life so beautiful and worthwhile! I know that we are all children of our Heavenly Father, so it brings me so much happiness to help my brothers and sisters! :) I would love to win their CD; they are so beautiful and talented! Thank you for this opportunity!! :)

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  10. Trista Bytheway says:

    Helping my children love themselves and see themselves as children of God. I’m not sure how to do it yet, but I will get there someday.

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  11. Cherie says:

    I’m a follower… Wait, that doesn’t sound right, but you know what I mean!

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